SPECIFIC CHALLENGES
Rabbi Gila will coach you in:
- finding and utilizing the necessary resources for your loved one, so that you can provide the best medical care and quality of life your elder deserves.
- coordinating the myriads of people and services required to provide outstanding care
- deciding difficult challenging decisions that arise.
- motivating family and community to share in the caregiving process.
- maintaining perspective and hope in the face of inevitable obstacles.
- honoring the dignity of the elderly client.
- Contact Rabbi Gila to set up a free 30 minute Zoom consultation to assess challenges, obstacles, and goals you are facing on the caregiving path.
From the traditional Jewish prayer for healing of body and spirit.
Rabbi Gila’s watchword as a caregiver is:
“Help us find the courage to make our lives a blessing”
– Debbie Friedman
1. Living Arrangements & Home Environment
Deciding where your loved one should live, and with whom.
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- Choosing accompaniment or assistance: part-time, full-time, or temporary.
- Home modifications: grab bars, safe flooring, adjustable chairs, proper bed height, stepstools.
- Special equipment: hospital bed, wheelchair, walker, cane, hearing aids, glasses, dentures, oxygen machine, pacemaker monitor, adaptive phones or computers.
- Supplies: food, personal care items, household necessities, gloves, wipes, toiletries.
- Special aids: spill-proof cups, adaptive utensils.
- Maintaining independence in bathing, dressing, eating, and decision-making, while adjusting gradually as safety and health needs change.
How to Assess Senior Independence
Activities of Daily Living (ADLs)
- Bathing
- Dressing
- Grooming
- Eating
- Toileting
- Transferring
Instrumental Activities of Daily Living (IADLs)
- Cooking
- Cleaning
- Managing finances
- Grocery shopping
- Managing medications
2. Medical Care & Health Management
- Connecting with local healthcare providers, hospitals, and specialists.
- Coordinating auxiliary care: dental, vision, podiatry, physical/occupational therapy.
- Regularly monitoring the medical portal.
- Pharmacy decisions: choosing a pharmacy, managing prescriptions, ensuring timely refills and deliveries.
- Keeping a record of all practitioners with contact information.
- Physical hygiene and ongoing maintenance.
- Scheduling and tracking medical appointments (in-person, telehealth, home visits).
3. Financial & Legal Guidance
- Managing finances and adapting plans to new situations.
- Insurance management: health, life, Medicare, long-term care, property.
- Knowledge of elder law: power of attorney, medical proxy, wills, estate planning.
- Facilitating completion of legal documents: Advance directives, Living will, DNR, healthcare proxy.
- Connecting with trusted professionals: lawyer, accountant, financial advisor.
- Keeping important records organized (e.g., Social Security, birth certificate, insurance, bank accounts, Medicare number).
4. Family & Caregiver Communication
- Involving family members in decision-making and care.
- Helping caregivers set healthy boundaries and limits.
- Facilitating communication between the care recipient and caregivers (phone, video calls, portals).
- Knowing when to step in and when to step back.
- Creating a central record of emergency contacts, medications, daily routines, and safety procedures.
5. Community Resources & Support Services
- Researching services available for seniors and people with disabilities.
- Finding financial support and home care resources through local and national programs.
- Arranging respite care and hospice support.
- Identifying reliable transportation options: private driver, agency, public transport, vehicle maintenance.
- Exploring ancillary services available both locally and online.
6. End-of-Life & Spiritual Support
- Guidance on end-of-life care decisions: treatment, palliative care, hospice, surgery, or interventions.
- Spiritual support: conversations about meaning, death, and afterlife.
- Helping families think creatively (“outside the box”) when facing difficult choices.
- Facilitating regular re-evaluations of care plans as conditions evolve.
7. Resources for Caregivers
Resources for caregivers — to be filled.
Contact Rabbi Gila to set up a free 30 minute Zoom consultation to assess challenges, obstacles, and goals you are facing on the caregiving path.